Have you been invited to a confirmation? Not sure what to give as a confirmation gift? We have great gift tips for the confirmand - and tips on what shops you should browse.
A confirmation is a big milestone in life, and many confirmands play a major role in planning the big day. For many of guests, there is only one thing to take care of: securing a nice confirmation gift.
How much is it common to give as a confirmation gift?
The question quickly arises when an invitation arrives in your mailbox: how much should you give as a gift to someone who is being confirmed? The simple answer is that this is highly individual. Everyone has different finances and different conditions, and there is therefore no right or wrong sum.
Nevertheless, regular surveys are carried out that say something about how much it's common to give as a confirmation gift.
The figures below are taken from a survey conducted by Norstat on behalf of the SKAGEN Funds, which shows how much people spend on a gift to the person who is being confirmed (figures from 2025):
Parents: NOK 5,950 on average.
Grandparents: NOK 3,750 on average.
Godparents: NOK 1,420 on average each.
Aunts/uncles: NOK 1,300 on average.
Cousins: NOK 625 on average.
Friends: NOK 425-475 on average.
Neighbours: NOK 425-475 on average.
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What is common to give as a confirmation gift?
Many confirmands want money so that they can buy what they want for themselves. Still, many guests think it's nice to give something other than a monetary gift. But what do you give a fifteen-year-old? And where do you buy it? We share our best Bergen tips below!
1. National costume and national costume accessories
Many parents or grandparents want to give a bunad as a gift. A bunad is a garment that the confirmand can wear for life.
Where to find national costumes and accessories in Bergen:
Norske Bunader Bergen
Bergens Broderiservice AS
2. Watches
A beautiful watch is suitable for both girls and boys, and is a timeless gift that can be found in all price ranges.
Where to find watches in Bergen:
Urmaker Bjerke
Urmaker F. Lohne
Tusen Tikk, Watchmaker Pedersen
Iversen & Co. AS
Urmaker J. Gjertsen
Bjørklund
3. Gift cards at De Bergenske
We have gift cards that can be redeemed at all our hotels and restaurants. How about giving an overnight stay or a fine dinner? Experiences are never wrong, and can be used exactly when the confirmand wants. A staycation is among our best confirmation tips.
National costumes are perfect for confirmations, weddings and the National Day on 17th May (photo credit: Norsk Flid Husfliden Bergen)
4. Electronics
For the gamer or the IT enthusiast, electronic gifts are never wrong. Maybe new speakers, a PC or a phone are on their wish list?
Where to find electronics in Bergen:
5. Jewellery
A pretty ring, a timeless necklace or bracelet in gold or silver is always in vogue, especially for girls. Feel free to take a sneak peek at what the confirmand likes to wear on a daily basis for an indication of the style you should go for.
Where to find jewellery in Bergen:
6. Skin care
Good skin care is becoming increasingly popular among young people. Why not buy a gift card for a facial of your choice? Many clinics also have a large selection of skin care products.
Skin care in Bergen:
7. Sports equipment
Fisherman, football player or ski touring enthusiast? If the confirmand loves physical activity, the sports shops are a good place to start. How about treating them to something they can't afford themselves?
Where to find sports equipment in Bergen:
Classic
Here are the event venues for those who prefer classic celebrations. The rich, historic surroundings create a warm and inviting atmosphere, while white tablecloths and excellent lighting provide an elegant setting for memorable gatherings with family and friends.
Grand Hotel Terminus
The hotel offers event venues for smaller gatherings as well as for up to 250 guests. Some of the rooms feature beautiful original interiors preserved from the hotel’s opening in 1928, while others have direct access to the green outdoor areas.
Engen
Engen Steakhouse features a modern architectural style, with large windows that let in plenty of natural light and create a warm atmosphere. The restaurant can host events for up to 200 guests and also offers separate rooms for smaller, private gatherings.
Please contact booking@engenrestaurant.no, and we’ll be happy to arrange a site visit and a meeting.
Large scale events
Frescohallen
The high ceilings of Frescohallen were painted by Axel Revold between 1921 and 1923, featuring motifs related to Bergen’s business life. Here, you can gather in award-winning, historic surroundings while enjoying a vibrant atmosphere on your special day.
Contact: +47 41 38 31 00
Grand Bergen
Grand Bergen offers event venues for smaller gatherings as well as for several hundred guests. Here, you’ll experience an atmosphere that creates warmth, joy, and inspiration. The venues are located right by Festplassen and Torgallmenningen in Bergen.
Contact: +47 55 21 25 50
Urban & welcoming
Here you’ll find event venues ideal for a relaxed and welcoming confirmation celebration, perfect for those who want a warm, comfortable atmosphere without sacrificing quality or style. Both the young person’s friends and family can gather for a day filled with laughter and meaningful conversations. The venues are modern, centrally located in Bergen, and offer an inviting ambiance that sets the stage for a memorable celebration in a calm and pleasant setting.
Izakaya Skostredet
Izakaya Skostredet is a newly opened restaurant at Skostredet Hotel. The venue offers a Japanese street food concept with a focus on elevated sharing dishes. Groups of up to 50 guests can be accommodated.
Phone: +47 55 30 40 53
Email: izakaya@skostredethotel.no
Zander K Hotel
Right next to the classic Grand Hotel Terminus, you’ll find Zander K Hotel. The venue can accommodate everything from groups of 20 to events of up to 90 guests, and the hotel also features a cool bar.
Bjerck
Located in the corner venue of Harbitzgården, Bjerck Restaurant sits in the very heart of Bergen. With a warm, family-friendly atmosphere and great views, the inviting spaces are well suited for enjoyable experiences together with the young people.
Tables can be reserved for all occasions.
Contact: booking@bjerck.no
Phone: +47 55 32 55 55
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